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"How do I make it happen??" was the question I often asked myself as I grew up and well into adulthood.
I was raised to be independent, resourceful, and high-achieving. Bars were not set low in my family. I embraced that perspective and elev...
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One of the foundational practices of Life Coaching is helping our clients understand the distinction between being a victim and having a victim mindset.
So many of us navigate through life with a victim mindset, convinced that external circu...
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I wrote the blog, Have Freakinâ Conviction, a few days after the massacre of my brothers and sisters in Israel. A few days after thirty children in pajamas were snatched from their beds and thrown into the very center of hell.
I appealed to ...
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Professional Coach Rich Litvin advises that those who have embraced coaching as our profession refrain from labeling themselves as "Coaches."
In his article, âNever ever say youâre a Coach,â he explains, âCoaching isnât a title. Itâs a tool....
I was born and partially raised in a country that wants me dead.
I am a Jewish Iranian woman.
The latest barbaric and unprecedented attack on Israeli citizens is simply the latest chapter in the oldest hatred on this planet â the hatred of Jews.
If you believe the old, tired, and stupid argument ...
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How did we live without GPS, cell phones, and text messaging?
Were we constantly lost, out of touch, and in danger?
Life before GPS, cell phones, and text messaging may seem different from today, but it wasn't a constant struggle. We manage...
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I sit in my favorite morning spot on this early fall day, and tears stream down my cheeks.
I have no words for the jumble of emotions that have me so moved by this moment.
Nothing sad, bad, or particularly emotional has happened.
It is the...
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Iâm more than a Professional Coach.
I am also a mother, a daughter, and a sister. I cherish profound connections with close friends in the three overlapping circles of my life, trail running, coaching, and well, life.
People confide in me w...
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We often complain about not having enough motivation.Â
âI really want to write the book Iâve been dreaming about, but Iâm just not motivated.âÂ
âIf only⌠I could motivate myself to make those important business calls.â
So we wait. And wait...
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Yesterday morning, a client of mine, whom I'll refer to as Peter, sent me a lovely text stating the following:
Peter: Youâre like the human AI!
Me: Why?
Peter: Because youâve read every non-fiction book ever written and you have a book rec...
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Last weekâs article â 9 Insights That Changed Me Forever â garnered significant attention from folks in my coaching community.
Many reached out with life changing insights of their own.
When we slow down to reflect on where we were, or rath...
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How do you feel when youâre told by folks who have known you for a long time, âYouâve changed!â
If your response is to pull back or cringe a bit, I can relate. So many people use this phrase to accuse another of no longer being the person they becam...
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I often speak and write about âGood Enough Parentingâ.
This is not because I or my clients aim low. On the contrary, we are all high achievers and by nature cringe a little when we hear the two words, âgood enoughâ.
We think that good enough is the...
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Were you as obsessed with "Succession" as I was?
Season after season, I eagerly watched each episode, with a paradoxical combination of intense fascination and subtle repulsion. There were moments when I could genuinely empathize with a character an...
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Effective communication (the kind that actually works!) is arguably our most impactful life skill, yet unfortunately, one most of us are not very good at.
While numerous books have been written on the techniques of effective communication, only a ha...
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People often ask me if they or someone they know is a good candidate for Life Coaching.
My answer is almost always contingent on finding out what questions they are asking themselves.
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If their internal conversation goes something like this:
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Most people believe coaching will give them clarity and confidence. The truth is that good coaching will give them courage.
Confidence is a result of doing hard things â taking actions outside of our comfort zone.
And clarityâŚ.well, Iâve never met ...
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âHow can I support you?â is one of my favorite questions to ask at the start of a coaching conversation.
What Iâm really asking is, âWhat is your support language?â
So much has been written about our Love Languages and most people are familiar with...
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Last week I wrote about what it takes to get to the start line of anything.
Many times, we scare ourselves before even starting, causing us to never begin. And thatâs why, so often, simply to begin is to win.
But what happens when we do begin and t...
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Iâm obsessed with beginnings. I find them to be powerful and inspiring.
Beginnings carry what I like to think of as âPilgrim Energyâ!
Beginnings are, by nature, about Possibility.
And Possibilities invite Optimism, Hope and Imagination â the three...
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Efficiency and effectiveness are not the same.
Understanding the distinction between these two words makes all the difference if our goal is to create more impact with our time, not just check off boxes on our âTo Doâ list.
Efficiency is a how and ...
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I have the privilege of working with a selected number of extraordinary individuals who aspire to establish a reputable, skilled and thriving coaching business. Building such a profession from scratch is not an easy thing to do. And it certainly does...
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I frequently use the word extraordinary to describe my clients.
Yesterday, while running on the trails, it occurred to me that using this adjective to describe people who are creating noticeable change and transformation in their lives, may be misle...
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1. The greatest truth remains â what David Whyte calls, âthe unending vulnerability of existence.â Pain, illness, loss and grief are not bugs in the system of life, but rather features.
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2. Optimism is not an option for the awakened and committed ...