Graduation Advice to My Younger Self

This past weekend, I attended my nephew’s high school graduation. As I watched the ceremony, I was struck by how mature and composed so many of the graduating seniors appeared—they looked like fully formed adults, seemingly ready to take on the world. It took me back to my own high school graduation. I remember feeling just as grown-up, confident, capable, and eager for what was next. Only now, with the benefit of hindsight, can I see how unprepared I truly was for the complexities of adult life. I had plenty of information, but very little wisdom. So, a few decades later, I’ve taken some time to reflect on what I wish I’d known back then. Here are 14 pieces of advice I would have given my 18-year-old self. In truth, they apply to anyone on the edge of adulthood, not just graduating seniors.